Insincerity is an issue for me. I can’t help measure actions differently otherwise. If I’m considering someones action and I can’t weigh how sincere they I would rather opt out as their actions seem only to appear harmful.
I’m curious about how other people measure sincerity, as I’m also struggling trying weigh up whether I might just be taking things to heart too much. But then I think why would it bother me, why would I get the uncomfortable ‘gut-feeling’ if everything was OK? Because my ‘gut-feeling’ has done me proud over the years, never once failed me.
But then isn’t my ‘gut-feeling’ linked to being emotional? Wouldn’t my over-ruling emotions mean I have to take control of the matter and tell me that all of the above is nonsense and that I need to strengthen up as I’m acting weak?
Then wouldn’t I try to measure the sincerity of the person in front of me again. Wondering if their actions are harmful or not?
I’m in a bit of a girt you see. I was hoping for answers.